This profession gives many things — and sharp feeling for lies, and skill to read people from half a word, and almost physical allergy to some phrases.

There are words that cut ear not worse than blade — because behind them always hide more than just unlucky formulation.

Today — no gloss and no cunning.

I tell about ten client phrases, after which I not even think to start — just stand, smile and go away. Because if person opens mouth exactly so — he already said about himself everything what needed to know.

1. "Well, you understand, I’m not like everyone"

Sounds cute. Almost flattering. Almost.
But only for those who in profession — recently.
In reality this phrase means one thing: he thinks he can “take” you not money, but charisma. That he so special, that you yourself now “will want,” and everything happens “for love.” Surprise: such “not like all” — many, very many. Especially when comes to check.
Real “not like all” — just pays and not builds illusions.

2. "Can you make discount?"

Oh yes, sacred word “discount.” In escort sounds especially absurd. As if you — not person, but shelf with markdown. Or kiosk with hot-dogs.
Seriously: if man asks discount for sex, he not respect neither himself, nor you. You not supermarket, and emotions not go “on sale.” In escort phrase “cheaper” always means only one — “I not ready to pay, but want use you max.”
Smile. Turn around. Goodbye.

3. "Can be without protection?"

Here no jokes.
This phrase — direct demonstration of disrespect. Not to you. To life. To basic hygiene, common sense, laws, your safety, your body.
If he asks — he not thinks about your health. And, most likely, not about his.
No excuses. No “but I clean.” Just — exit, door, luck.

4. "I will transfer to you later"

Oh, financial classic.
This phrase — not about money. It is test: how much you “soft,” how ready to move your limits. If you agree — prepare, that “later” never come.
Decent client pays advance. Or at least — by contract, without wiggles and fantasies. “Transfer later” — means he already thinks that can manipulate you.
Block. Forever.

5. "Can you come without makeup, in home clothes?"

Seems — what scary? Cozy, comfort, relaxation. But no.
This phrase not about you. This phrase about his fantasy. He wants not woman, but image, and better — where you not feel professional, and he — client. Like, here she, home, “own,” come by call of heart.
Don’t get caught. You not his girlfriend from college. You — service. Status. Role. And no “homeliness” here must be.

6. "Listen, now I hard, but you normal girl, understand?"

Translation: “You not very monster, do everything but almost free.”
Hard to believe how many men ready spend 15000 in bar for evening, suddenly become “poor” in correspondence with escort. Amazing magic.
If he tries push on pity — he weak. And with weak clients should not be. In profession where you — predator, it dangerous.

7. "Do you get pleasure from this?"

Question with double bottom. It like nothing obliges, but really — breaks borders.
Man not just interested. He wants that you say: “Yes, I good with you, I excited, I want.” Why? Because then he stops feel client. He need believe that you want him for free.
Many girls fall. Start play “involvement,” even if this not part of format. And then can’t go out from this game.
No. This not about you. This about his ego. Leave it alone with him.

8. "Can be no preludes, straight to business?"

Sure, can. Only you — not to business. You — script. And if he not want neither light flirt, nor small talk, nor mood — means he sees you just like hand replacement.
Such client dangerous not aggression, but devaluation. He not will be rude, but behave like you — machine. Without emotions, without right on feedback.
And you not machine. You — person. And for this come best clients.

9. "Can you not say that you do escort? I somehow embarrassed"

Perfect. And I somehow embarrassed that grown man can’t accept his desires.
If he ashamed — he will try devalue your choice. Pretend “it just meeting,” “we friends,” “maybe later and not for money.”
This phrase — alarm bell. He not respect your profession. Means, not will respect you.
You — not his secret. You — not “shame page” in his life. You — service. Quality. Respected. High price, high level.

10. "Can be without discussion? Just meet and see"

No, can’t.
This means: no agreements, no responsibility, no clarity. You come, and then — improvisation: from “can more this” to “but I thought you yourself want.”
This phrase — invitation to chaos. And any girl who enter it, knows how ends: nerves, tears, bad evening, feeling used.
Clear terms — your armor. Don’t take off only because someone not want “talk about money.”

Instead conclusion

When you just enter escort — seems that main — be beautiful. Then think: maybe important be “flexible.” Then — “gentle.” Then — “not annoying.”
And then comes real experience. And you understand: main — be honest with yourself.
Phrases that sound like “no problem,” really — warning. They signal you: “here not respect you. Here try use you. Here will be pain.”
And your task — not argue, not prove, not “play scenario till end.” But just stand. Smile. Go away.
Because you not from those who “tolerate not to spoil evening.”
You — from those who know own value.